想想吧，假如停止抱怨的话你会变得多么快乐。反正那些事情又无力改变，整天想着那些你无力改变的事情又有哪些意义呢？假如你来问我，我会说那样非常愚蠢。当你意识到自己在抱怨的时候，停下来，问问自己是要变得快乐，还是继续如此抱怨下去。
你筹备好过没抱怨，愈加开心的生活了吗？
Any fool can criticize, condemn1, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving. Dale Carnegie
If we really want to be happy, why do we act like such babies?
We can claim to be proactive in our life by settings goals and going after what we want. But if were always whining2 and complaining all the time, are we really living effectively?
If you dont believe me, count how many times you complain about something or other in one day. Whether it be being stuck in traffic, being bothered by the weather, not enough mustard3 on your sandwich, or whatever it is, there are endless instances where you can find a reason to complain.
But its not just outside circumstances that we complain about. We complain about about ourselves too. We complain that we dont have enough time, we dont have enough money , that were not smart enough, cool enough, or just enough.
I know Ive experienced plenty of unpleasantness due to complaining about things I cant control. I never really thought about it much until I found this website about living in a complain free world.
Imagine how much happier you would be if you simply sTOPped complaining? Much of what you complain about is outside of your control anyway. Whats the point of brooding4 about something you have no power to change? Not very intelligent, if you ask me.
Simply becoming conscious of how much you complain is the first step to sTOPping. When you recognize that youre complaining, sTOP and take notice of it. Ask yourself if you would rather complain, or be happy.
Are you ready to live a complaint-free, happier life?
